How to choose a baby name that you both will love.
Choosing a baby name is always a challenge, but finding one that you and your partner agree on is oftentimes the biggest difficulty of all! One thing that can assist in the naming process is to discover what type of name category you each prefer. When you know the basic categories, the types of names that you each like and dislike, you have a much better chance of finding some middle ground to select the perfect name for your new baby girl or boy!
When my husband and I were considering names for our children, it quickly became obvious that he preferred more traditional names like “John” or “Matthew”, while I preferred more unique names such as “Ezra” or “Elyana”. When we figured this out, we were able to compromise by choosing unique names that have more traditional nicknames.
With a little creativity you will discover a baby name that is the perfect choice for your growing family!
I’ve compiled a list of 10 basic categories to consider. You can use these to discuss preferences with your partner and narrow down your choices from that point. With each category, there are a few names listed that are representative of the types of names usually associated with that particular category.
- Nature Inspired – Dawn, Rose, Lily, River, Reed
- Geographic – Dallas, Asia, America, Dakota, Paris
- Action Inspired – Hunter, Gunner, Mason
- Unisex – Alex/Alix, Jordan, Morgan, Taylor, Ryan, Hayden
- Doubles – SueAnne, JoBeth
- Traditional – Susan, Bill, Henry, Sally
- Unique – Elisha, Delaney, Joelle, Elias, Dante, Zane
- Religious – Mary, Esther, Ruth, John, Mark, Noah, Titus
- Vintage – Mabel, Dorris, Helen, Preston, Elwood, Vern
- Family Names
Do you feel drawn towards any of these choices? Is there a category that both you and your partner appreciate? If you’ve already named all your children, what types of names did you choose?
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Hannah @Supermommy!...Or Not says
I love double and religious names, my husband prefers unisex and traditional. Neither of us likes the categories the other one likes. We have a hard time picking names out :) To pick out our kids’ names, we each made a list of names we liked, then we swapped lists and crossed off the names that we couldn’t stand. After hashing it out, we came up with a “master list” of names that we both liked or one of us loved and the other one tolerated. With our first, her name was narrowed down to 2 or 3 and then while I was in the hospital in labor, we picked one off the list. I think that worked in my favor because after seeing how much pain I was in, he let me pick a name he’d previously said no to :) For our son, we managed to pick out a name about a month before he was born. For our third, we argued over boys’ names for 4 months thanks to the ultrasound. When our baby GIRL was born, we had NOTHING to go on. I spent my first day in the hospital surfing baby name websites and we ended up picking a name that we like but we probably wouldn’t have picked out had we had more time.
I’m due in March with #4 and no matter what the ultrasound says, we’re picking out a name for each!
Janet Dubac says
I had a hard time picking out my daughter’s name. is started thinking about a name when she was just 4 weeks inside my tummy and finally made up my mind just a day before she was born. I got the name from a character in a book that I was reading and I love it! I found Glimmer unique and fitting for our tiny little angel.
Paula says
what a neat idea! and a beautiful name!
Sylvia says
New to your website and came here from a blog party. I find it interesting that you use the word partner instead of the word spouse in this post.
Now a word from a long time public school teacher: you may name your kid(s) what ever you like. But, please do not be upset when others have great difficulty with spelling the name(s) or with pronouncing it. Your adorable baby will grow up and be an adult with a strange name (yes, I dare to say strange) that may be absolutely silly to others. I have a dear friend who named her daughter Ryann ( Ry from Terry her husband and Ann from her middle name). She constantly complained that her daughter’s gender was listed as male on documents. Her sweet daughter was even assigned to a male dorm (this was before co-ed dorms).
Paula says
good tips! we had similar problems when I worked in daycares and gym child care centers! I still gave my kids pretty unique names though, I just couldn’t resist! Unique ones didn’t bother me as much, as a mainstream name with a unique spelling…that also wouldn’t be a big deal if the parent didn’t get angry at me if I misspelled their child’s name! ;)
Danielle B says
Yeah I was bother by partner considering this is a Christian blog.
Carol says
I once worked with a doctor who had this advice; think about what you will tell your child about the name you have given. Why did you choose the name?
Shiloh Barkley says
I think you should run with this and create your own series called “How to Make Decisions: practicing deductive reasoning skills for everyone.” Each week could be a new topic, but the same methodical categorizing and list making will follow!
Paula says
Interesting idea! I just might :)
Danielle B says
Definitely traditional or religious names. And by religious I mena names that directly relate to God, or a strong biblical meaning. The name must be positive meaning hope and patience. Noting meaning fear, demonic, depressed, ugly etc. unique names do you even now what it means as a name? Remember you a calling your child that when you call your child, simply by saying their name.
I heard a long time ago future employers JUDGE e person by the name on the resume’. Apple smith or Jlll Jones, which won would get the interview?
Elisabeth says
I love this… we’ve always tried to run all of the names we pick (and the initials, too) through the “tease test”… to see what’s the worst possible thing that other kids may come up with in the future. We tend to stick with traditional names, for the most part, and like to look at their meanings as well. (For example, Arielle Danae, our youngest daughter… Arielle means “lioness of God” and Danae means “God is my judge”…. strong name!)
Alexis @ We Like to Learn as We Go says
I like names that are more unique while my husband likes family names and good nicknames. I really liked Kamryn for our daughter, but he didn’t love that it’s traditionally a boys name. But I told him we could call her Kami and that sold it for him. Our second daughter Chloe my husband heard in a book and we both liked it. And now that I’m pregnant with my third, if it’s a boy it will be Nathan which is a family name and if it’s a girl I have no idea! But as you can see, we’re a little all over the place when it comes to picking names. :-)
Carrie from Carrie This Home says
Choosing a girl name was easy for us. Choosing a boy name was very different. We didn’t feel as inspired as the first time. My hubby is a teacher so there were many names ruled out. I think it’s important to see that the name will fit the child as he/she grows up.
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Becca says
Great idea! My husband wants to name our girl Moonbeam Starlight (he’s kidding… I hope) but I’m already concerned we’re going to struggle with agree on a name. Thanks for sharing! Stop by my Friday’s Five Features and link up this post (and others)! http://diy-vintage-chic.blogspot.com/2013/09/fridays-five-features-no-7.html
jamie@kreyv says
Coming up with names is SO hard! My hubs never brings anything to the table, but just vetoes my suggestions! :) Sometimes, he’ll come around, like with our daughter, he hated the name when I originally brought it up (probably two years before the birth), and then, luckily, by the time she was born, he liked it! Great post! Visiting from SITS Sharefest!
Mandi Noel says
My husband and I don’t have children yet, but we have discussed names. I really like vintage and unique names while he prefers traditional and unisex names. His name is a popular baby name now but was not so popular when he was born, so he only know one other person with his name growing up. My name is Amanda, and I was born in the 80s, so I always had at least 1-2 other kids in my class at school with my name, and I hated it. That’s why I started calling myself Mandi. So that’s why I think I’m so opposed to a traditional name. I do have one very unique name in mind for a girl, though, and my husband has actually agreed to it! I think it’s because it’s kind of fancy sounding. haha
Tracy @ Daily Dish Magazine says
These are good tips to help parents pick the perfect name for their baby!
Grace says
My husband is also my partner… Why not use more inclusive than exclusive language? :)
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