If you listen to the internet, apparently “date night” for married couples is a controversial topic. One camp says it’s essential, and you’re certainly on the fast-track to divorce if you don’t have a regular date night after saying “I do”. The other says it’s silly, daily time with your spouse is all you need, and dating is for, well, the “dating stage” only.
I don’t really fall into either of these camps. I won’t say date night is essential for a happy marriage, because I know there are lots of ways a couple can be happy. For some seasons of life date night isn’t even possible, and I don’t think that makes a marriage disaster bound.
However, I do love a good date night. Time spent with my husband is always time well spent, and I’ll snatch up those extra minutes any time I can.
During the Summer months, it’s especially fun! I hate cold weather so when cooler weather hits, we’re limited to indoor dates only. I love that Summer allows us to have fun outside together, even if it does get hot.
I realize that school is starting quickly, but I live in Houston, it’s still well over 100 degrees outside every. single. day. So, it still feels a lot like Summer here in Texas, so I thought it would be fun to recap some of our favorite dates and some we’ve yet to try but still might make time for before it gets too cold.
The day trip date – This is an idea I wrote about on my travel blog, but I think it’s a fun one to share here too! Set out with the windows down, your loved one beside you, a map and a sense of adventure! By playing this game, you’ll have no idea where you’ll end up, but it’s sure to be a fun time with your spouse! Read more here.
Go to an outdoor theater – We’re fortunate to have an amazing outdoor theater near us that does plays and even shows movies during the Summer. We watched one of our favorites there this Summer! Even if you don’t have a free community theater near you, search for a local drive in or something similar for a out of the ordinary (in 2016) date night!
Find a beach
Any beach will do. We have an ugly one near us, but it’s still great for an evening or even a day away! If you’re not fortunate enough to leave near the ocean or bay, maybe find a lake or a river nearby to enjoy with your beloved!
Sleep outside
While this is most-fun on the beach (listening to the waves as you fall asleep, is the best!), find a way to sleep outside, somehow while it’s still warm! There’s nothing like star gazing and chatting all night long!
Find history
Google “historical marker in *your city*” and find the closest ones. Check out what happened in your city in the past, and enjoy learning about it together!
It’s like a scavenger hunt for adults and it’s nothing short of awesome. Find clues online, search for things other people have hidden or hide your own for others to find.
Watergun fight
These sorts of games aren’t just for kids! Snag their water guns and have fun racing around the park trying to drench your spouse before they can get you! Water balloons would be equally fun, if you don’t have kids who already have a water gun stash to share.
If you are doing a fun outdoor date night while it’s hot, let me tell you a little secret… I discovered these this Summer and it’s made me a lot more comfortable all Summer long.
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I was selected for this opportunity as a member of Clever Girls and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.
Becca Holton says
Stargazing sounds fun. That’s gotta by one of my favorite date night ideas that were listed. A friend of mine likes to try out new restaurants when she goes out on dates.
David Luiz says
Water-gun fighting is the best option to try. Sounds like too much fun. You can also include bowling, it is also very adventurous and couples will definitely enjoy bowling together.
Noah Jordan says
Wow amazing ideas, But me and my boyfriend are on summer vacation, I’m in Italy and he’s in London. We both got different schedules so hopefully we can set up date night next year, maybe doing a few of this things. Thanks for listing all these things.
Summer says
Thanks for sharing. Have a fabulous week!
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George says
Hey there! When it comes to summer date night ideas, the options are endless. You could start with a romantic picnic at a local park or beach, enjoying each other’s company under the setting sun. For a more adventurous twist, try stargazing in your backyard or at a nearby observatory, finding constellations together. If you’re both foodies, consider a DIY pizza night where you create personalized pizzas and enjoy them while watching a movie. Another fun idea is to have a mini road trip to a nearby town or attraction, exploring new places hand in hand. And last but not least, a sunset kayak or paddleboard excursion can add a splash of excitement to your date night. So go ahead, mix things up, and create unforgettable memories this summer!
Chris says
I love your take on date nights. Even in a long-distance relationship, making time for special moments, whether virtual or in person, is so important. Thanks for the inspiration and the great suggestions!
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When I saw the list of ideas, I thought it was a real lifesaver for one-time dates. Last year, I spontaneously organized a city walk for a girl I had just met on fetish masturbation dating website — picked 5 random spots where we did funny little tasks aside of all the other stuff. It was February 2024, around 7°C with a light drizzle, but it turned out way more lively and natural than just sitting in a café. I spent about 25–30 euros, and the conversation flowed so easily that by the end of the evening we were both in a great mood. Since then, I’ve realized that unusual dates really help you quickly feel if there’s chemistry without any awkward small talk. We had a crazily hot night, but please don’t ask anything further.
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